There is a court hearing next week – a permanency hearing. And I just have time for a quick post but will say this:
1) the court document that we were sent is so riddled with error, inaccuracy and just awful grammar that it, in itself, is a crime
2) the last hearing was so stupid that I am not going. Andrew is, even though he knows it will be stupid and a waste of time, because it says on the document that if we don’t go, we waive the right to speak. And in true Andrew fashion, he announced this morning, “I am certainly not waiving the right to anything!”
3) Blitzen is finally meeting her LG. This is good and I hope it will be empowering for her. I am a little concerned (cause I am like that) that she will invest too much in the discussion and think that it will impact things greatly either way. She told Andrew last night that she intends to tell the LG that she wants to go home to her bio mom which is fine, of course, except that more than 50% of the time, she wants to us to be ‘home’ so hence my worry that she will say one thing and think she has magically set in motion an unstoppable sequence of events and regret what she said. On the other hand, perhaps I am only the person in the family that does that.